First person explained for kids

First person is when the storyteller talks as "I" or "we." It sounds like someone telling you what happened to them. You see what they see and feel what they feel. It is like hearing a friend tell a story about their day!

Worked examples of first person

Example 1 (younger grades):

"I ran to the bus stop, and my heart was beating fast. I hoped the bus would not leave without me."

This is first person because the narrator uses "I" and tells the story from their own eyes and feelings.

Example 2 (older grades):

"We stepped into the dark theater, and I felt a shiver run down my back. I could not tell if it was from the cold air or from the strange silence that wrapped around us."

This is first person because the narrator uses "we" and "I" and shares personal thoughts and feelings. The reader only knows what this narrator sees, hears, and thinks, not what every character in the story is thinking.

Going deeper with first person

In first person, the narrator is a character inside the story, often the main character. This character can describe their thoughts, feelings, and memories directly, which can help your child feel very close to the narrator.

However, a first person narrator can only tell what they personally know or notice. They cannot see inside other characters' minds, so the reader has to pay attention to clues in actions and dialogue to figure out what others might be thinking.

Older students also learn that first person narrators can be reliable or unreliable. A reliable narrator describes events in a way that seems accurate and fair, while an unreliable narrator may leave out details, misunderstand events, or even lie, so the reader must think carefully about whether to trust what is being said.

Common mistakes with first person

  • Mistake: Thinking any story with a strong main character is first person.
    Correction: First person is about the words the narrator uses, like "I" and "we," not how important a character is. A story can have a main character but still be told in third person using "he," "she," or "they."
  • Mistake: Assuming a first person narrator knows what every character is thinking.
    Correction: In first person, the narrator usually only knows their own thoughts and feelings. Other characters' thoughts must be guessed from what they say and do.
  • Mistake: Mixing first person with other points of view by accident, such as writing "I" in one sentence and then switching to "he" or "you" for the same narrator.
    Correction: When a story is in first person, the narrator should stay with "I" or "we" when talking about themselves, so the point of view stays clear and consistent.

How first person shows up in everyday life

First person shows up any time someone tells their own story. A child might say, "I scored a goal at recess," or write, "I felt nervous before the test" in a journal. Social media posts, diaries, and many letters or emails are written in first person, because the writer is sharing their own experiences and feelings.

Related terms to explore

To better understand how first person fits into reading and writing, it can help to look at these related ideas:

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