How to explain point of view to a child
Point of view is like choosing which pair of eyes you use to see a story. Sometimes the story says "I" and you are inside one character's head. Sometimes the story says "he" or "she" and you are watching from the outside. The person who tells the story is called the narrator.
Point of view examples
Example 1 (younger grades): first-person point of view
In first-person point of view, the narrator is a character in the story and uses words like "I," "me," and "my." For example: "I ran to the bus stop, hoping I was not late." Here, the reader only knows what this "I" character sees, thinks, and feels.
Example 2 (upper grades): comparing first-person and third-person limited
First-person point of view: "I could feel my hands shaking as I stepped onto the stage. I was sure everyone could hear my heart pounding." The reader is inside one character's mind, and the story uses "I."
Third-person limited point of view: "Sam stepped onto the stage. His hands shook, and he thought everyone could hear his heart pounding." The story uses "he" and "his," but the narrator still shows only Sam's thoughts and feelings, not what every character is thinking.
Going deeper with point of view
As students move into middle and high school, point of view is not just about spotting "I" or "he" and "she." It also includes how the narrator's beliefs, experiences, and feelings shape the way events are described. This is sometimes called the narrator's perspective.
Older students compare different narrators telling similar events. For example, two characters might describe the same argument in very different ways. Noticing these differences helps your child understand bias, reliability, and how authors guide readers to feel a certain way about characters or situations.
Students also learn more types of point of view, such as third-person omniscient, where the narrator knows the thoughts and feelings of many characters, and objective point of view, where the narrator only reports what can be seen and heard without sharing inner thoughts.
Common mistakes about point of view
- Mistake: Thinking point of view is only about pronouns, so any story with "he" or "she" must be the same type of point of view.
Correction: Pronouns are a clue, but your child also needs to notice how much the narrator knows about characters' thoughts and feelings. - Mistake: Assuming the narrator always tells the truth and sees everything clearly.
Correction: Some narrators are unreliable, meaning they may be confused, biased, or dishonest, so readers must look for clues and compare what different characters say and do. - Mistake: Mixing up the author's opinion with the narrator's point of view.
Correction: The author creates the narrator, but the narrator is a voice inside the story, with its own limits and opinions that may not match the author's.
Where kids see point of view in everyday life
Point of view shows up whenever people tell stories about the same event in different ways. Two friends might describe the same soccer game differently, or siblings might argue about what really happened with a broken toy. Each person has a point of view, just like narrators in books.
Related reading and language arts terms
Understanding point of view connects to other story ideas your child may learn about:
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